High Tea Party – Host an afternoon tea party at home. Deliver an elegant invitation, requesting all of your guests to come for an afternoon of high tea. Encourage everyone to dress in the spirit of the fashionable Victorian era (complete with hats, gloves, and parasols, of course). Set tables in your backyard with white tablecloths and fine china. Serve hot tea from silver pitchers, along with a variety of tea sandwiches, scones, tarts, crumpets, and monogrammed petite fours. If you're lucky, you might convince your father and brother to wear tuxedos and "work" as waiters for the occasion (it is your
birthday, after all). If you want to go all out, consider renting a double-decker bus to take your guests to and from the party. Now that's traveling in style!
Alice in Wonderland Party – If high tea is not your thing, consider the alternative–a tea party fit for a mad hatter. Dress Dad as a caterpillar, and have him ask, "Whooo are you?" as guests arrive at the front door. Encourage guests to come in crazy costumes–anything goes, but hats should be mandatory. (Have a few extras on-hand for anyone who doesn't comply with the dress code). Seat guests in chairs of all shapes and sizes, and set the table with mismatched dishes, oversized cups and whimsical cupcake place card holders. Serve a collection of wild tea sandwiches and giant cookies. Ensure that there are sparklers on your cake instead of the usual candles, and have everyone sing "A Very Merry Un-Birthday" when the moment arrives. After all, it's everyone's un-birthday today! Once the cake has been served, you and your guests can move to the front lawn for a game of croquet (using plastic pink flamingos as mallets, of course!).